Yesterday I was sitting with my 7 year old in a coffee shop. I had been at home for two days in a row after a dental surgery so just wanted to go outside. She was having a chocolate shake and i was having a cappuccino. All this while I had been on the phone, talking to my dad. I didn’t realise that she was listening to our conversation. When I hang up the phone, she looked at me and asked,”Are you going to die mumma?” I looked at her with the same expressions and blurted,”No.” Then I asked her that why she asked this particular question. She said,” Oh you were telling Naanu about your surgery and i heard it. So the conversation was like this,” I had a dental cyst surgery more than a year back and I recovered from it fully. But this time after the surgery the doctor told me that initially there was only 60% chances of my survival even after the cyst surgery as the cyst was blocking the artery and facial nerves. But now he was relieved as the healing had been great and the cyst will not come back ever. “
It took me a while to think if I should tell all the details to my daughter or not. I sat with her and explained to her everything whatever had happened since the first surgery and all the consequences. She knew a bit but not the entire episode. She listened attentively and then when I finished telling her everything, she said to me,” Then this means that you are not going to die?” I smiled at her and said,”No.” She shook her hands and said,”Phew. That’s a relief.” I hugged her a bit tightly, feeling emotional and gave her a kiss. Then we walked towards the bus stop to go back home.
But this conversation made me lighter thinking that she is now old enough to have these kinds of discussions. Feeling a proud mum, I looked at her and a thought came,” Today’s girls are really made of steel.”